Welcome to
the VidaDömination
Based in Leeds, UK
Often traveling to London, Berlin +++ more
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I am not your regular, nor your expected domina.
I am a creature, fluid in gender and style.
A cyborg relating to goth, punk, elegance and luxury.
Mixstress Vida is a Queer Fem Domina. Fluidity in gender is a power that will be respected, honoured and adored…
It is important to me that you understand that regardless of how fem or androgynous I may appear in a session; I work as a queer fem. I do not fit in to patriarchy’s definition of a woman. You, especially if you’re a man, must understand that is an honour to serve and or be played with by a queer fem. My fluidity in gender and style attributes to my ability and empathy to connect to many, and understand a lot.
I absolutely invite men, to come serve me, adore me, play beneath me and preferably enjoy some level of pain… Anyone who wishes to explore gender, anyone who feels they do not belong within the classic gender binaries are deeply invited and I wish to create a safe space of any magnitude for your exploration and fulfillment.
More on Mixstress Vida:
My first 6 years of experience varied between Escort, GFE and Domination. After a 2 year hiatus I have excitedly returned as a Domina and with full force. I feel rich in desire to pervert with you. As you will see from my list, I have an extensive variety of experience and interest.
I have many different types of experiences in the world of BDSM and kink over the past years and live it in my personal life as well as professionally.
Aside from my Domina side, I am a blood and pain performer and a tattoo artist. I believe that these with my previous experiences in the BDSM world makes a session with me all the more unique. I have a deep empathetic soul that coincidentally enjoys both sadism and masochism. I have a love for rituals which may also be brought into a session between us.
Please understand that the content I make online is CONTENT, and I only offer Domination in real life sessions. However, seeing that I play on both sides should only encourage your trust in how I take responsibility for you while potentially understanding your experience.
Join me, Mixstress Vida; for a flavour of The Vidadöd.
While I enjoy playing with you, men lay beneath me in general and should feel honoured to financially support me even without touch.
As a Queer Domina, I have particular interests in Gender roles. I have particular interets in physical pain, medical fetish, and using you for my own satisfaction. This means that I may or may not wish to enjoy your climax, but your orgasm is not my goal. It is the journey.
Role playing; Gender play, Feminization, Suggestions welcome, Objectification,
Worship; Body worship; Armpits, Feet, clothed Intimate, clothed Facesitting, Full body,
Service worship; Slave Service, Dinner dates, take me Shopping*,
Pain; Needle play, Impact play, Corporal punishment, Electrics, Ball busting, Tattoo (w or w/o ink), Med fet
Fluids; Golden shower, Hardsports***, Ruby showers***, Roman showers***, Spit, Sweat (in warmer months +latex request)
Restriction; Chastity, Bondage, Mummification (many forms depending on dungeon/creativity), Smothering,
Other; Objectification, Humiliation, Degradation, Ashtray, Trampling, Sounding, Smoking fet, Strap on, Fisting, General anal play,
Forced Voyeurism; This is where I do whatever I want for my own pleasure with myself, you watch in restriction, far away. You may or may not be able to see, you may or may not be able to hear. You may or may not smell my lust in the air; you may witness with some, but not all senses.
Requesting Latex, Leather, Lingerie, etc, +50
Requesting less or more feminine, +100
You may request my services alongside one or more other dominas.
Your Vidadom would like your trust in new experiences;
HEAVY CBT (+needles,nails) (with trained dom), Pet play, HEAVY ball busting, Cutting
Costs may differ and will be confirmed when planned according to and with the other Domme!
Hard limits;
Race play, Bare Intimate worship, ABDL, cuckolding
You may see me online submitting to Femdoms, this is STRICTLY for femdoms and you can pay to see this online.
*lower hourly pricing, *** additional pricing; GS 50, KV 100, RS 100
As I have recently moved country and returned after a hiatus, we may need an appropriate dungeon for certain play while I rebuild my kit and own dungeon facilities.
How to Apply
Keep it simple. Keep it to the point.
You must tell me your interests and desires, as well as your limits. A short introduction to yourself. The dates / month / location you’re interested in meeting. You’re experience (whether none or a lot). If possible duration desired.
Be ready and willing to send a tribute deposit to lock in dates. You must understand that I will not talk endlessly online for free. If you wish to have more of a conversation or consultation you can do so with another tribute.
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